Each day before heading into the classroom, I have to stop to ask myself, “What do I want my kids to get out of this day?” It seems simple enough. After all, I like to assume that all educators take time to reflect before entering this arena, called teaching. That’s why we are here, right? We are here for the kids. To change lives.
I learned throughout my own education that the true difference between a “teller” of knowledge and a teacher is that a true teacher builds a relationship. They do not just give the information and expect regurgitation.
They get to know their students. They discover their likes and dislikes. They WANT to know what they are interested in. They seek opportunities to understand what a student may be going through. They build their students up. They listen. They speak. They care.
Now, before we get started, I’m sure that some of you may be thinking, “Positive thinking can only get you so far.” In certain aspects, this is true. It CAN only get you so far. But your delivery and belief is what will make all of the difference. We have to remember that a lot of our students are coming from backgrounds where they have not always been told how great they are. They have not been told that they are special and will grow up to make a difference in this world. They have not been encouraged to believe in their dreams and reach for the biggest goal they can imagine.
Many students, instead, come from homes where mom and dad are rarely around. Many students do not know where they will be sleeping at night. There are those that wonder if they will eat at night when they get home. When these kids are coming from these situations and these circumstances, it’s more important than ever that we challenge ourselves to fill in the gap for all of the positive lessons that they have not been afforded the opportunity to experience. Many students just wish for one second they can find something slightly resembling the normal.
While this may make you feel somewhat disheartened or overwhelmed, there is good news! You have an opportunity daily to step into the classroom and speak truth into these kids. You have a platform where you can have the attention of many different children and just take the time to say, “You are unique! You are special! No one else in this world can be YOU! I’m glad that we get an entire year to discover your gifts and passions.”
Every now and then, I like to start our day in the classroom by taking out the classic foil star stickers that we have all come to love. As each child comes into my classroom, I bend down, place a star on their shirt and I tell them, “I’m giving you this star because I know that today, more than ever before, you are going to learn, you are going to show your best behavior and you are going to make a difference!” The star becomes a symbol for the student and myself that today is going to be a great day!
I see it as a way to show that I’ve taken time to encourage my kids that day. It’s funny how a few words and a foil star can make a child start to believe in themselves. It’s the power of positive thinking. It’s showing your children that no matter what baggage they came in with, or what circumstance they are going to go home to when they leave you, at that moment when you place the star on their shirt, someone cares and someone believes that they are special and worth the time you are giving to be with them!
I like to believe that my students from the past will always remember the times that they came into my classroom and the attention was completely focused on them. I hope that they can remember how I greeted them at the door with a smile on my face and showed that I was there to make a difference for THEM. It’s not about me. It’s about my students. It’s about the chance to impact them and in return have them impact everyone they ever come into contact with.
Think I’m a dreamer? If so, you are right. I dream of a world where educators are passionate about stepping into the classroom. I dream about a world where students love coming to school because they feel valued! Sure I dream… and I hope that after reading my blog, you will begin to DREAM too!by